I think I over-Romed…. get it?
My feet are killing me. But it is exciting to be here. It kind of reminds me of the first time I went to L.A. I was driving around and everywhere I turned I saw a place that I knew, even though I had never been there. Ah, there is that street that Richard Gere took Julia Roberts shopping, ah Melrose Place, etc. When a city has been featured so much in movies and on TV, you kind of already know it. But then again you don’t.
It was an experience arriving on my 2 hour 30 minute flight from Seville. I’m so glad I didn’t come all the way from San Francisco. Even after such a short flight I was kind of out of it. I hadn’t slept well last night for a variety of reasons. My new alarm woke me up at 4:40 a.m., but I was already kind of awake. The noises of people talking and kids crying had been replaced by the sound of a cat in heat and someone’s alarm clock that was going off non-stop. I was going to miss my neighborhood.
I walked out into the eerily quiet and deserted streets and easily found a cab at a taxi stand nearby. There were several waiting.
Airport check-in was a breeze since I had my boarding pass printed already (but they still gave me a regular one) and passing through security had none of the yelling, stripping and hassles that it does in the States.
The flight was quick and I slept through much of it.
I got off the plane and entered the airport terminal where I was greeted by a guard with a dog who was sniffing people as they walked past. The guy motioned for me to stop, which I did, and the dog sniffed. Then the guard yelled at me – OK! OK! OK! Signore! The “signore” was not a polite kind of “sir” but more like a disgusted “man” what is wrong with you kind of tone. He wanted me to move on. I thought one “ok” would have sufficed and was a little shaken by the experience. It took me a half day reflecting on it to begin to smile about it and remember that that is what Italians are like and I should know because I’m like that sometimes. It didn’t mean anything.
And then I took the train from the airport and it started to feel like I was in Rome, with thousands of other tourists, all over-packed and struggling with very heavy, very big suitcases. I meanwhile had my very light backpack and my day pack with my laptop inside.
Getting off at Termini Station was a little intimidating because I wasn’t really sure where I was going, even though I had looked at maps and kind of figured out that when I exit the station I turn right and when I get to Piazza Independenza I turn left at the end of the piazza, but things on maps look different than they do in real life, so I wasn’t sure. Plus there were a LOT of people and the walk from the train to the exit of the station was really long.
And so I walked, looking for a street named Nicola something or other. At one point I asked a woman standing in a doorway of a shop smoking a cigarette and she assured me I was going in the right direction. But still I wasn’t sure. I thought a Piazza “Independenza” would surely have some grand statue commemorating independence that I would be able to see from where I was, but I was not seeing anything.
I crossed a street and saw a Sicilian Pasticcera (bakery) that I noted and kept walking. I still was not seeing Nicola so I made my right turn, thinking I would eventually see something. But I got worried, so as a woman came walking down the street loaded with shopping bags from the supermarket, I asked her in my best Italian. It was a good thing I asked, because I had walked too far. She directed me back to the street with the Sicilian bakery and from there it was a short walk to my hotel. She was very nice and even apologized to me for giving me the wrong direction at first. I was revising my impression of Italians after the guard at the airport and the woman in the tourist information place who didn’t seem very nice.
I arrived at my hotel – the Hotel Select Garden (strange name) on Via Bachelet (strange street name which I am not sure if it is pronounced like French or Italian – since it looks French), but the people at the desk were super nice. A young woman and an older man greeted me. I think the older guy is the owner.
I said “ho una camera pre-notata”, which is one thing I learned in my Italian class in Buenos Aires. Wow, I actually learned something useful. The woman was impressed by my Italian. I told her it was my “primera volta” in Roma – she said oh, it is your “prima volta”? Ok, so I was mixing Spanish and Italian, but she got the point, and I think also learned that my Italian was not as good as she first thought. But she pulled out a map and proceeded to show me where we were located and circled all of the things on the map that she thought I should see – the Colosseum, the Pantheon, the Vatican, etc., and she recommended Trastevere, a neighborhood across the river, for me to go at night because there are a lot of young people hanging out (I thought of pointing out that I wasn’t young, but decided not to). She was great, and so was the guy who eventually checked me in and the woman who showed me my room. I was glad I upgraded to a Rick Steve’s son’s recommended hotel rather than the Hotel Salus, where I originally booked that got a 78% disapproval rating on Trip Advisor (I saw it, it’s just around the corner and looks dingy and not very friendly).
My room is just off a garden courtyard where they serve breakfast in the morning. It’s about the size of a walk-in closet, but I lived in Japan, so I’m used to small hotel rooms. It will mean I won’t be hanging out a lot in my room, which is good. I’m in Rome, I shouldn’t be staying in my room. The bathroom is really small and I have to back in if I want to sit on the toilet.
So, I took a shower, connected my computer, got changed and went out for a little walk.
As soon as I started walking I started seeing things I wanted to get a closer look at, and before I knew it I was walking in all directions, any time a street looked interesting or I saw a building or monument that might be worth checking out. And then sure enough, there it was rising up like some page out of a pop-up history book – the Colosseum. I headed in that direction.
The buildings looked like Rome. The paint, the shutters, the potted plants in the windows, all looked like Rome. I was sure I was in the right place. It was just like I had seen in movies. And then the faces, they all looked so familiar – like my relatives, my neighbors, people I grew up with – I recognized so many of them (except that they were often thinner and better dressed). I was feeling like I was in a very familiar place and all of the worry and stress I had after reading guidebooks and online warnings about pickpockets and scams melted away in the feeling of being in a place I already kind of knew.
As I approached the Colosseum, I saw a street that looked really interesting, so I turned. A group of school children came from another direction, all chatting noisily in Italian – as they split ways, I heard them say “ciao tutti”, as a woman came towards me holding a big bunch of flowers. It was all feeling so Italian, so Roman.
And then I came out to a main street to find I had stumbled on the Roman Forum. From there I joined the hordes of tour groups heading towards the Colosseum, like we were all off to see the latest battle between the lions and the Christians.
It started feeling like a carnival, especially when I got to the Colosseum and saw the gladiators! Yep, there were random guys dressed up in gladiator costumes (I knew from reading online that if you take a picture with them they make you pay). They looked kind of ridiculous and didn’t fit my image of what a gladiator would look like (at least not what I learned from the movies). They had scrawny legs and looked like they drank and smoked too much. One had tattoos of spiders on his legs, which I don’t think a real gladiator would have had.
I walked inside but the ticket line was too long and it was hot and crowded. I decided I could always come back either earlier in the morning or later in the day, or not.
I then headed back from where I came and saw Trajan’s column. My art history class that I slept through in college was paying off. I knew it was important because of the bas-relief story-telling that was carved on the column. I could see the story of some conquest, or perhaps many.
I continued to walk, not really sure where I was going but not worried because I knew that I would continue to stumble across familiar sights, and that I did. A sign told me that McDonald’s and the Pantheon was 500 meters. I followed it. Before entering the Pantheon I went into a Basilica next to it because it was free. I was amazed at the beauty of the place. It was the Basilica of Santa Maria somebody. It had a lovely blue painted ceiling that looked like it was painted by some famous Renaissance artist, maybe Giotto (I don’t really know). It was light, glowing, reverent, and everything that the big heavy cathedral in Sevilla was not. It felt like a church, people were praying and other people were walking around taking pictures. I lit a candle and wished for world peace. Surely if there were a God, he would grant that wish. I wasn’t praying to win the lottery or pass an exam.
And then I went to the Pantheon, which I knew also from art history books. It didn’t look like it did in the books. The big domed ceiling was amazing, with that perfect hole in it and the floor with drain holes in it to let the water flow out when the rain comes through the hole. But the pictures in the art history books never showed the mobs of tourists that literally filled the place up. There was not much empty space left after they all crowded in. I also didn’t realize how Christian the place actually was, with statues of saints and a little altar. I guess the “pan” part of it was no longer and it was now a “mono” theon (but maybe all of those saints really are gods, aren’t they?)
From there I hit all of the names – Piazza Navona, Trevi Fountain, I saw St. Peters from a bridge on the Tiber River. I was hot and all of the water I had been drinking and the one gelato I’d had were no longer providing me relief. My feet were killing me and I needed to get back to my room, shower and rest. The only problem was I was now not sure where I was. I still knew the names – Via Venetto (that was famous for something, right?), Triton fountain (I took a picture) Piazza Barbieri – made me think of Vinnie Barbarino, but I could not figure out from my map how to easily get back to my hotel. But I had my week-long metro pass I bought in the airport and there was a metro stop. I knew that both lines of the two-line metro ran to Termini Station, which was a few blocks from my hotel, so I descended into unknown territory, hand in my pocket on my wallet and clutching my bag and camera, not sure what was in store for me.
What was in store was a very crowded, hot subway train that I almost didn’t get on. But I squeezed myself on (actually once on the train it was cool) and in two stops I was at Termini Station. And then up through a maze of escalators and different floors and finally I made it back to the Sicilian bakery, which was also a cafeteria. It was time for dinner.
I had a piece of eggplant parmagiano, which like the pizza I had at lunch, was simple, but really good. I also got a “season” salad, and I guess the only thing in season was lettuce and tomatoes, and a glass of wine. It was a good simple meal that kind of left me wanting more. I guess I was really hungry. So I ordered a cannolo (single of cannoli) – which has to be one of my all-time favorite deserts.
It had to be the best cannolo I’d ever had. The shell was deep fried, crunchy and very tasty. It reminded me of the cannoli shells my godmother Jean, who was Sicilian, used to make. But the inside was to die for. It was a fluffy, light ricotta filling, unlike anything I’d ever had before. It was so good I was literally salivating and slobbering all over myself. I was kind of embarrassed at the mess I was making, but no one noticed.
My bill for this simple meal came to 19 euros – probably something like $30 USD. It was hardly a splurge at a fancy restaurant. I could see that my budget was going to possibly suffer if I didn’t watch myself in Rome.
And finally, I returned to my hotel, to my walk-in closet sized room and showered and took a little nap. It was too early to sleep all night so I went out to look for some water and possibly some other things I could stock in my room. I ended up walking near the train station where I found an Indian guy who had a cart set up on the street selling fruit, water, snacks, wine and beer. I got a large water, a bag of popcorn and a small bottle of wine. And next to him was a place selling gelato. I really want rice and cinnamon gelato, but I am not sure if it exists or I am dreaming it up. I couldn’t see the flavors because a gaggle of giggling German girls were standing in front of the display case, so I bought a ticket for a medium gelato and decided I would get whatever they had. I didn’t need it. It was my second gelato today, but I got it, and I enjoyed it. Hazelnut and chocolate. I stood outside and ate it and watched the assortment of tourists and ethnic men who seemed to live there, one Arab/African (not sure) guy in particular was walking up and down the sidewalk bothering women in a very disgusting way. He actually followed one woman to a taxi and even stood there when she got in the cab. I felt sorry for her to have to put up with such obvious rude/sleazy/inappropriate behavior – if a gay man looked at him in the way he was treating these women, he would probably feel it would be a good enough excuse to kill the guy, and yet these women had to simply keep walking to get away from this creep. And the worst part was then he acted like they were the ones who were being rude. Two young women were sitting outside of the gelateria eating their ice cream and minding their own business and he walked up to them and stood right in their faces and made some comment about their sandals or something. They first shook their heads no but when he persisted, they moved away, and then he played the victim saying “oh, ok, be like that”. I wanted to tell him to fuck off, but decided that he might be a little crazy and it was probably better if I stayed out of it.
And that was my first day in Rome.

